I'm finally going to do it this week but have two questions.First ,is the torque arm bolt really not reusable? I find it very strange,what if I put it back with a dab of Loctite?It would save me a 50km trip.
Second what oil should I use?Same as for the gearbox?
Thanks
BMW changed the torque arm bolt type when they introduced the service interval.
I can't remember exactly but I think the original was an ovalised bolt designed for single use. I think they changed it to either a bolt with a plastic insert or a standard bolt and lock washer.
Either way, use the right part. They don't cost much and I am sure a good dealer will stick the parts in the post for you. Order a handful of o rings and sump crush washers at the same time.