Wow. Joined this forum 'cause I had an R1100S, this is turning into a Scooby owning, Skoda admiring club.
One wee thing, dont know what kind of pushchair you own, but our Bugaboo goes lengthways into my '97 Golf Estate and an Octavia (any). The only downer on the Forester is it doesnt quite fit, so has to go in sideways, and that makes a lot of difference in terms of usability.
Its always the little things.
The stuff about the Audi/BMW choices, it was what I meant to say about having all the hire cars, never felt the Aui/BMW felt any more special than the Seats/Skodas/Toyotas etc. And the Almera is the car I have just recommended to my father - not a 'great' car, not the most special, but a serious, and I mean serious bargain second hand. But smaller than the other stuff you are looking at.
Final thing is what are the dealers/specialists like locally? A good one means a lot to me. I certainly would not have bought another BMW bike had I not had BGM on my doorstep.